On Sun, Mar 3, 2019 at 09:34 AM, J_Catlady wrote:

if they don't also return the confirmation email they don't even show up in the pending list! (Still scratching my head around that one and will try to run a test today

Or, more hopefully, the pending notice isn't sent until after they confirm. So scratch that.
In fact i will try to write up some documentation for the current state of this whole thing, without judgment - just the facts as we know them. I'll run it by a few key people including Mark.
 
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J

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